FREEDOM FOR WOMEN
George Bernard Shaw wrote Freedom for
Women (1891). Unless a woman repudiates her womanliness, her duty to her husband, to
her children, to society, to the law, and to everyone but herself, she cannot emancipate
herself. It is false to say that a woman is now directly the slave of a man; she is the
immediate slave of duty, and as mans path to freedom is strewn with the wreckage of
the duties and ideals he has trampled on, so must hers be.
In 1881, Shaw fell in love with Alice
Lockett and his wooing of her lasted for three years. This was the beginning of a series
of "philanders" as he called them.
Shaw married Charlotte Payne Townshend, a
wealthy Irish woman and fellow Fabian in 1898. They both were in their forties. Neither
wished to marry, but Shaw, under the misapprehension that he was to die, proposed to her.
It was an unorthodox, but happy-probably celibate-marriage that lasted until
Charlottes death in 1943.
He came to believe from his own
experience that imagining love played a more important part in life than real love, for
the imagination beggared reality and personal contact was a poor substitute for the dreams
women could so easily evoke. Annie Beasant who was the strong supporter of Indias
freedom movement and founder of The Theosophical Society of India was not a woman to
be neglected or trifled with. Shaw insisted on their relations being put on a serious
footing.
But her husband was alive and she could
not marry him, she made a contract setting on which they were to live together as husband
and wife. He read it and said, "this is worse than all the vows of all the Churches
on the earth. I had rather be legally married to you ten times over". |